Post by kenny220 on Jun 2, 2009 19:50:52 GMT
Dont be fooled by literature,or out dated old fashioned religious leaders, or other well-meaning clueless idiots of all ages and walks of life what ever they say there in there job to earn a living, Do not be fooled, or lulled into thinking the road you have to take is identical to the road of theres or your Loved Ones, no matter what category. don’t forget you’ve got some brisk walking to do on your own—no cheating that any warm desires you feel for any young or old person mean that person is your Loved One. What these desires mean is that you want to have sex with that person. Mind you, and this is an important point, just because you desire someone does not mean sex is a compulsory activity. No, this is where you start finding out about yourself and walking your own road. Just because you like a person, just because they makes you tingly all over, does not mean you have to have sex with him. Of course you................ Sons and Daughters, do not confide in your parents about your sex life. Do not be fooled into thinking your mother is your friend, no matter how eagerly she appears to want to fill that position. You may have to hurt her feelings here. But, trust me, this is a normal part of Growing to be a Whole Person. Your sex life is your own, from its own dim, unidentifiable beginnings all the way to your grappling with an understanding of what it means. It is not your parents.they have there own stuff to worry about. In fact, the first signs of your own sex life are the first signs that you are becoming a separate person from your parents, and that you’re starting out on your own road. By yourself. This is your responsibility and no one else’s, and you only get one shot at it, so don’t mess up. Take it seriously. (Of course, if you run into trouble on your own road) ask your parents advice. That’s what they are for. And they generally know more about advice at this point than your friends do.
Notice I say “your own road.” This means exactly what it says. This means do not have sex with him, as long as you make sure you won’t get pregnant or pick up any unsavory diseases your 16 now the choice is yours alone,. But you don’t have to have sex with him or her, is what I’m saying. It’s an option. sex is a CHOICE. You have a choice. Don’t forget that.
Notice I say “your own road.” This means exactly what it says. This means do not have sex with him, as long as you make sure you won’t get pregnant or pick up any unsavory diseases your 16 now the choice is yours alone,. But you don’t have to have sex with him or her, is what I’m saying. It’s an option. sex is a CHOICE. You have a choice. Don’t forget that.