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Post by jade on Apr 3, 2009 11:49:03 GMT
What should you do if you find out your teenage son is watching porn? Is this bad influence for him? How can you help your boy cope up with images in porn movies?
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Post by kenny220 on Apr 4, 2009 21:44:20 GMT
I think he's actually a normal thing for a teenager . This is not uncommon. ive had mums with boys and girls a lot younger than that have been caught in more compromising actions than this , You should really talk to him about the subject so you can see where his thoughts are on the matter. Tell him the goods the bads the rights the wrongs the ins the outs (no pun intended) about sex... if you haven't done this already. Monitor his actions towards the issue and proceed accordingly, but keep in mind, he's not doing anything abnormal. just learning the facts of life, we all had our learning ways, and no one is exactly the same , i know mine wasnt normal, what ever each of us did im sure we found it enjoyable,
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Post by jade on Apr 11, 2009 6:47:38 GMT
Thanks for the good advise Doc.. i have tried it and it all goes well. And he is starting to open up to me about the girls he is showing interest with,,, its fun talking to my kid about it...
keep up the good work doc.. thanks
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Post by quicouillou24 on Apr 16, 2009 12:30:05 GMT
Personaly, I think you need to explain.....you need to talk about the good and bad sides of sex..... With teenagers, you need to talk and to talk again.... Now the problem is, it's so easy to access to porn...with internet...and one day, teenagers gonna access to these porn sites....you can't make nothing about this.... Just explain....and explain again....talk and talk again...  |
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Post by jade on Apr 25, 2009 10:25:23 GMT
Parenting can be very strenuous and tough job... but being parents, we are responsible for our kids and for their safety. At least we parents have done the best we can do for them. Keep up the good work quicouillou24.
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Post by quicouillou24 on May 1, 2009 8:57:27 GMT
Thank you Jade....thanks a lot..... |
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Post by kenny220 on May 12, 2009 21:01:40 GMT
Just an article the health people replied to a question that was asked of them, i thought this might be helpful to all you single parents with teenage sons ,
Sexuality & Sexual Health
Sexuality & Sexual Health
For Teens by Teens
Masturbation / Question
Dear TeenHealthFX,
I caught my 13 year old son masturbating and watching porn. Is this wrong? Should I correct him? Please answer - thanks!
Dear Caught 13 YO Son Masturbating & Watching Porn,
Masturbation is completely normal and natural . This is especially true for teenagers male and females, who are experiencing intense hormonal changes and may be just discovering themselves sexually. It is also normal for a 13-year-old boy and some girl's to be interested in pornography. Whether this is wrong is a very personal question. Some people find porn arousing. While curiosity about pornography is natural, the images contained in some porn are more than the normal sexual acts,
There are pros and cons to confronting your son about this incident. He is probably embarrassed by having been caught by you, and you may decide to let the incident pass without any confrontation. On the other hand, you may want to look at this as an opening to a conversation about sex. If you do decide to speak with him, we hope you will make it clear that you understand and accept that he has been exploring his body. Beyond that, what do you want your son to know about sex and sexual relationships as he grows into a man? This might be a great opportunity to tell him.
If you'd like to read more about talking to your son about sex, we recommend All About Sex: A Family Resource on Sex and Sexuality, edited by Ronald Moglia and Jon Knowles. This is a terrific book to have on hand as your son goes through puberty - it has clear and simple information about sexuality, and is written with parents and teenagers in mind
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