How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back After A Breakup

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By : Cheow Yu Yuan

When a man leaves a woman and she is not ready for a split, it can be earth shattering for her. Every day, couples break up and patch back. Every adult will usually experience at least one breakup during their life. If you are not ready to give up your ex boyfriend, there are ways to get him back into your arms.
The first thing that you say to your ex boyfriend is extremely important. If you say the wrong words, you will lose the chance to get your ex boyfriend back. Do not respond to your ex request for a breakup by crying and begging him to come back. This will not work. You are just going to make him feel more irritated and drive him further away. You need to understand that even though he initiates the breakup, there is a good chance that he still harbors good feelings for you.

So control your feeling after the breakup and do not break down in front of him. If he asks you whether you still love him, do not use the word love. Instead, tell him that you still care about him and will wish to remain as friends. Remain friendly and keep in contact. Sooner or later, the opportunity to patch up will present itself.

After the breakup, you need to keep yourself occupied. By doing so, you are also letting your ex boyfriend know that you are handling the breakup very well. Get out of your house and enjoy your life. Ask your sisters out for drinks without him. I understand that this can be hard to do right after a breakup, but if you want to get your ex boyfriend back, you must do it.

You can get your ex boyfriend back if you do not beg, threaten or show that you are weak. Be brave and hold your head high. Once you start keeping yourself occupied, you will not think of him every now and then. And by the time you know it, you will soon discover that he is having trouble living without you.

When your ex boyfriend comes back to you, you will feel stronger and be the one who make the decision about whether you want him back into your life.

Remember, no situation is hopeless. You definitely can get your ex boyfriend back by using the right methods.

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Winning Back An Ex - 5 Ways to Win Back Your Ex

By : Cheow Yu Yuan

Breakup is a very painful experience for many people - it is like the end of the world. When you broke up with your ex, it is natural for you to feel confused and think that the situation is unsalvageable. It is, however, not true at all. No situation is unsalvageable. There is hope. By doing the right things, you can win back your ex.

To win back your ex, there are certain things you must take note. Now, I will share with you 5 ways that you can win back your ex and enjoy the good old times again:

1. Reflect on your relationship and find out why the both of you broke up. This is a very important step that you must take if you want to win back your ex. Reflect on the causes of the breakup and find out how things went wrong. Was it because you are too clingy? Or was it because your ex does not love you anymore? If the reason of the breakup is because of you, you must change and never repeat the mistake again when you patch up with your ex.

2. Do not beg your ex to come back to you. Begging will not make your ex come back to you. Instead, it will drive your ex away. So, the number rule is you must not beg your ex to come back.

3. Do not text her with dramatic stuff. Sending your ex a simple sms after a breakup is the way to go. Do not send her a text and make things dramatic as this will make your ex angrier with you.

4. Do not try to make your ex jealous. Although it might be tempting for you to make your ex jealous and show her how well you have coped with the breakup, this method could backfire. Because your ex might think that you have really moved on with your life and decide to give up the relationship completely.

5. Be persistent but not irritating. If your ex has moved on and found a new love, it does not mean that you should not continue to keep in contact with them. Or worse still, crying and bombarding your ex with many calls and tell them how sad you are. Just keep things simple and remain as friend with your ex. If your ex asks you out for a date as friend, please go. By doing so, the opportunity to patch up will soon present itself.

No matter what happens, you must remain confident and not lose hope. Every day, couples get back together regardless of the situation and you can be one of them.

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I think one of the best ways to get your ex attention is to appear to be dating someone else. Even though your ex may have dumped you, he/she may think that you are still his/hers. This means that if your ex sees you with someone else he/she will get very jealous and want to get back together with you.

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Many people make the mistake of trying to move on too quickly after the break up. While this may help you to erase the agony briefly, in the long run it serves to only lead to more hurt and anger because the pain that was ignored for a while remains as painful as a new wound because you did not allow yourself time to get over it. So, it is imperative that you take things slowly after the break up and wait a while before you are completely fit and fine and deal with the pain.