Post by SaRaHJaNe on Apr 13, 2009 5:46:49 GMT
Cheow Yu Yuan
Guessing whether your ex still care about you is a very common thought by people when they just broken up with their lovers. This has puzzled many people and they tend to use all sort of methods to find out whether their ex still care about them. But, you do not need to follow what they did. There are clues that you can look out for to know if your ex still care for you.
But first of all, you must understand what is the reason that caused the breakup. By understanding the reason and addressing the main issue, it would allow you to make the necessary changes to attract your ex again. In fact, there are quite a few couples who have already done this and they are back together now. I believe you can be one of them too. Sometimes, when you are analyzing the situation, you may shed new light and find that the relationship is not worth saving. If you feel this way, so be it. If after careful thought and you still plan to save the relationship, then read on.
The first thing that you should do to get your ex back is to ask him or her out for a heart to heart talk. Tell your ex that you are not out to quarrel with them and if at the end of the day your ex still want a breakup, you will not go crazy about it.
During the talk, dissemble facts and discuss them with your ex. Throughout the conversation, notice the words that your ex use. If your ex uses some words that imply the future, you can be sure that your ex still care for you and the relationship.
The next step is to clear up any misunderstanding and solve any issue that is harming the relationship. If you see that your ex still need some time to think, let them be. Tell your ex that you understand it is important to take some time to think about it and you do not want to rush things too. By doing so, your ex will feel that you can handle the situation well and may find you more attractive.
Remember, no situation is unsalvageable. Every day, couples get back together regardless of the situation and you can be one of them.
Guessing whether your ex still care about you is a very common thought by people when they just broken up with their lovers. This has puzzled many people and they tend to use all sort of methods to find out whether their ex still care about them. But, you do not need to follow what they did. There are clues that you can look out for to know if your ex still care for you.
But first of all, you must understand what is the reason that caused the breakup. By understanding the reason and addressing the main issue, it would allow you to make the necessary changes to attract your ex again. In fact, there are quite a few couples who have already done this and they are back together now. I believe you can be one of them too. Sometimes, when you are analyzing the situation, you may shed new light and find that the relationship is not worth saving. If you feel this way, so be it. If after careful thought and you still plan to save the relationship, then read on.
The first thing that you should do to get your ex back is to ask him or her out for a heart to heart talk. Tell your ex that you are not out to quarrel with them and if at the end of the day your ex still want a breakup, you will not go crazy about it.
During the talk, dissemble facts and discuss them with your ex. Throughout the conversation, notice the words that your ex use. If your ex uses some words that imply the future, you can be sure that your ex still care for you and the relationship.
The next step is to clear up any misunderstanding and solve any issue that is harming the relationship. If you see that your ex still need some time to think, let them be. Tell your ex that you understand it is important to take some time to think about it and you do not want to rush things too. By doing so, your ex will feel that you can handle the situation well and may find you more attractive.
Remember, no situation is unsalvageable. Every day, couples get back together regardless of the situation and you can be one of them.