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Post by jade on May 1, 2009 20:49:03 GMT
Men cheat and are incapable of being monogamous.
-Men would secretly love to date and sleep
with different women the rest of their life rather
than just have to stay with one serious
committed relationship.
-Men just want to have fun and "freedom"
and no responsibility.
If you guys agree or disagree with this statements,
will you please reply to me and state your reason. Would
love to hear your comments. Thanks.
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Post by SaRaHJaNe on May 2, 2009 7:15:54 GMT
I think this thread is very judgmental but its good we can give you guys a chance to defend yourself............. Let us see what you guys can say about this.
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Post by kenny220 on May 2, 2009 13:36:47 GMT
yes i agree and its the natural male instinct as we are the hunters , you can see it in the animal world all the time , but i think most of us , educated ones, in relationship's respect our female mates, and lovers and dont wander or have affairs, but yes i must admit the insinct is still prevalent, and the urge to mate with other females is allways there, but must admit some and i said some girl's jump the men so easily aswell, im not taking all the blame Jade,
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Post by SaRaHJaNe on May 2, 2009 14:38:59 GMT
Yeah I agree with you Doc Kenny, other girls are the tempters, and men by nature are hard to resist temptations. In this situation, I think it calls for more understanding from the mate, instead of nagging and declaring for divorce or separation.... unless love and trust is lost and gone, and both realized that living together is hell.
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Post by richard on May 2, 2009 14:54:44 GMT
i dont know a single man who was able to resist a hunt by a woman ...so Yes we are expose to this and we are subject to deal with the temptation or the invitation sometimes hidden of woman ...we are like that......This is one aspects
on the other side i still believe that a man who is starting to look for somebody else is because he does not get anymore satisfaction with the current partner
Don't blame ur guy if u stop having sex with him or having too much headaches to avoid it and he is starting to get nervous about his needs...because WE need it ......
And here its about sex but could be also about anything in the life of a couple a single change not explained or prepared with your partner and Boum ...you open yourself the door to a possible deviation because outside some will offer better than u do
I do think that love is never for ever...............and don't take it as granted once you get it ..it can go as fast as it came..............sometimes...
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Post by belledonne1160 on May 2, 2009 22:59:55 GMT
Hey richard, does it imply that you are agreeable to Jade's statement? The men are really infidels? Surely if there is problem with the relationship, there is a tendency to stray, likewise with the women too.
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Post by richard on May 3, 2009 22:55:18 GMT
belledone............meaning is that yes there is a tendency for men to look around as soon as the relation ship is starting to get wrong .........or boring .......or conflictual
We are so FRAGILE...........................LOL
Seriously if i have to give one advise to you all girls ....keep your guy happy and busy then he will focus on you and will forget that outside there are others waiting
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Post by shirley on May 4, 2009 1:51:10 GMT
I gave up everything for my husband. he cheated me for 5 years, now he live with his mistress and abandon his kids.
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Post by kenny220 on May 4, 2009 12:49:38 GMT
Well i hope his guilt catches up with him soon because what ever happens in a relationship between adults should never interfere with the children, good luck Shirley our thoughts are with you , but time is a healer , and the sooner you can start motivating yourself again the sooner the hurt will go away , good luck for the future,
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Post by richard on May 4, 2009 14:16:23 GMT
This is a sad story shirley but unfortunately so common ...i hate that
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Post by belledonne1160 on May 5, 2009 1:23:19 GMT
your husband deserve to be shot in the luneta shirley, you need to fight for your right and your kids have right for his support.
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Post by shirley on May 5, 2009 1:57:19 GMT
Thank you. Sharing what been through with me.
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Post by SaRaHJaNe on May 7, 2009 23:18:01 GMT
shirley belledonne is right, you need to fight for your right and for your kids. Its time you show your husband he cant just let his thingy wander around and just forget his obligations.
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Post by richard on May 9, 2009 15:54:24 GMT
good good good ...a fight coming ............i can help .....just tell me .........i love that ....
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Post by jade on May 10, 2009 10:50:46 GMT
a fight is not it should be..... its more of claiming what is due to her and her kids.. they deserve to be supported and not abandoned.
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