Post by kenny220 on May 5, 2009 17:22:26 GMT
Are You Sharing Your Man With Another Woman?
Ladies......all too often, especially since the introduction of all the reality television dating shows and talk shows, we have lost true perspective into what a real loving relationship is all about. We watch these shows and the women on them can't wait for their date nights, they're kissing the men right after he's just kissed some other woman, they even go so far as to have sex with these men to see who can give it better, because their main goal is "I want him to choose me." That is reality television, but in the very real world of ordinary working women, some actually think that it's okay to share a man. Of course, there are those women who have no idea that they are sharing their men; this article is not about them. This article addresses concerns to the women who think that they aren't worth being the only woman that their men should love.
Some of us actually believe the saying that there are "five or so women for every man," because of a man shortage in this world. If you go through life believing that nonsense, of course, you are going to continue to share every man that you meet. You really won't care if he has a woman or not. The issue will never be raised throughout the course of your relationship, because you think that's the way it's supposed to be. I don't remember us being put on this earth to suffer, be sad, and have our feelings hurt over and over again; however, I do believe that we must experience some amount of pain and suffering for continuous life-long learning and to gain further and advanced knowledge, one of our true purposes here in this life. This does not mean that as a woman, you should continue to suffer and feel the pain of sharing your man with other women. If you have not yet learned the lesson in your experience, it just means that you have more growing to do and additional knowledge to gain. When you're ready, your entire world will change.
These types of men prey upon women they think have low self-esteem; and obviously so because you agreed to share him. When you continue to allow these men to feel that it's okay to have two or more women and questions are never asked, do you think he's going to get a conscience and just stop because he feels bad? It's not happening! He will see nothing wrong with the arrangement of having two or more women, because you see nothing wrong with the arrangement of him having two or more women. If you are allowing this, I don't think that I can believe it's because that's the way you prefer it. You obviously must think that you are not worth being loved and being in a committed relationship that consists only of you and your man. Most times when women are engaged in these types of arrangements, it's mainly just for pleasure purposes and have nothing to do with a relationship. But, if you are allowing him to live with you half the week and "her" the other half, this is more than just a sexual fling ladies......You Are Sharing A Man! Some women may even go so far as to say "Well He's My Kids Father." Being your kids father does not justify sharing him with other women. Is he "her" kids father too? What message are you sending to your kids, especially if you have a daughter? If you have a daughter and she knows about the arrangement; and sees that her mom appears okay with it and she's not sad, imagine what she must be thinking, "Why can't I do the same thing? Mom says there's a shortage of men anyway, it's better being woman number two than no number at all." Your daughter must know that she is worth way more than being woman number two. You must teach her to think and know (regardless of your current arrangement) that she is worth being the number one woman or nothing at all!"
Know that you are worth being loved, you are beautiful, and you should always be the one and only woman in your man's life. If you are committed to a man at present, whom you're sharing with others, imagine the commitment and love you can give to a man who really wants to love you and only you. Life could be much better, if you can just believe your words and open your eyes:o
Ladies......all too often, especially since the introduction of all the reality television dating shows and talk shows, we have lost true perspective into what a real loving relationship is all about. We watch these shows and the women on them can't wait for their date nights, they're kissing the men right after he's just kissed some other woman, they even go so far as to have sex with these men to see who can give it better, because their main goal is "I want him to choose me." That is reality television, but in the very real world of ordinary working women, some actually think that it's okay to share a man. Of course, there are those women who have no idea that they are sharing their men; this article is not about them. This article addresses concerns to the women who think that they aren't worth being the only woman that their men should love.
Some of us actually believe the saying that there are "five or so women for every man," because of a man shortage in this world. If you go through life believing that nonsense, of course, you are going to continue to share every man that you meet. You really won't care if he has a woman or not. The issue will never be raised throughout the course of your relationship, because you think that's the way it's supposed to be. I don't remember us being put on this earth to suffer, be sad, and have our feelings hurt over and over again; however, I do believe that we must experience some amount of pain and suffering for continuous life-long learning and to gain further and advanced knowledge, one of our true purposes here in this life. This does not mean that as a woman, you should continue to suffer and feel the pain of sharing your man with other women. If you have not yet learned the lesson in your experience, it just means that you have more growing to do and additional knowledge to gain. When you're ready, your entire world will change.
These types of men prey upon women they think have low self-esteem; and obviously so because you agreed to share him. When you continue to allow these men to feel that it's okay to have two or more women and questions are never asked, do you think he's going to get a conscience and just stop because he feels bad? It's not happening! He will see nothing wrong with the arrangement of having two or more women, because you see nothing wrong with the arrangement of him having two or more women. If you are allowing this, I don't think that I can believe it's because that's the way you prefer it. You obviously must think that you are not worth being loved and being in a committed relationship that consists only of you and your man. Most times when women are engaged in these types of arrangements, it's mainly just for pleasure purposes and have nothing to do with a relationship. But, if you are allowing him to live with you half the week and "her" the other half, this is more than just a sexual fling ladies......You Are Sharing A Man! Some women may even go so far as to say "Well He's My Kids Father." Being your kids father does not justify sharing him with other women. Is he "her" kids father too? What message are you sending to your kids, especially if you have a daughter? If you have a daughter and she knows about the arrangement; and sees that her mom appears okay with it and she's not sad, imagine what she must be thinking, "Why can't I do the same thing? Mom says there's a shortage of men anyway, it's better being woman number two than no number at all." Your daughter must know that she is worth way more than being woman number two. You must teach her to think and know (regardless of your current arrangement) that she is worth being the number one woman or nothing at all!"
Know that you are worth being loved, you are beautiful, and you should always be the one and only woman in your man's life. If you are committed to a man at present, whom you're sharing with others, imagine the commitment and love you can give to a man who really wants to love you and only you. Life could be much better, if you can just believe your words and open your eyes:o
Relationships would last a lot longer im sure,
